You step out of my life because you dare.
I have a fire in my heart, so beware.
I love the sky’s of blue and flower too.
I love the shore and I wish I could explore more.
A dramatic change in my self concept, I am experiencing it right now. I am losing my identity and a part of my self, my life. Many of you may be experiencing a similar change.
Before 12 years, I have been married to a man who was not known to me. In short, it was an arrange marriage. Earlier it was going all well but later problem were taking place in my life. And the reason behind it was possessiveness. It can be seen in most of the men but when it takes the shape of vampire, and then it can’t be tolerated. The same thing happened to me. He can’t even have the courage to send me to meet my family. God had blessed me with two sons. I can’t even talk on phone. In fact I have been physically harassed and tortured by him on regular basis.
A life partner is meant for whole life to which we can share all our happiness and sorrows. But I didn’t have the courage to share anything to him due to his behavior. He didn’t even bother what was going in my mind when I was going through that kind of tortures. His says that a lady is meant for leaving under control of men.
I came to my family house by leaving my in-laws family. After one year, he wants me back in his life but now I don’t want to go back. I want to make my life worth. He is compelling me by using all the ways. But my consciousness doesn’t allow me to do so because I don’t find any kind of respect in his words when he tried to compel me. In fact he didn’t allow me to meet my kids. Is it his stubbornness or something else?
This was the story of my friend. A woman cheats by her husband and should she still be a good wife? What you think can be done about this situation? Should she go back to her husband or should she do something else for her life?
